i am curious as to how many single dads out there not only pay child support but also help out in other expenses like sports, ballet wear, club fees for these sports, shoes and school clothes. my ex is just now buying stuff for the kids but it’s like a package of underwear and one outfit for their birthday. AND he wont let them take these things home. i asked him to help with the extras he said no that he pays child support and that is enough. it is support, to support these kids in basic life. the extras, is extras. think about it, he pays about $500 a month in support (this is not actual amount,just an example) and that is “his part”. and i MATCH that plus provide shelter, clothes, electric,water,medicine, school supplies, birthday parties, ballet lessons, karate lessons, ballet outfits, karate outfits, new shoes about every 6 months …the list goes on! and we are “co” parents!?!? i raise our children, he “babysits”every other weekend. is this normal single dad behavior?
oooooooooo and yes i work, forgot to include that for the smart arses who think that i dont. like i said i MATCH his money and i triple it with extra income. so how can we be called EQUAL parents when we’re not!! i pay more and i do more. are there single dads who understand that??are there single dads out there who override the court order and do more. i want to know if those kind of dads exsist?
miss m the answerd to this question speak volumes, this question was to SINGLE DADS who give more. and not one single dad has posted lmao. and my ex refuses to see the kids other than the court ordered days so he wouldnt accept full custody. this is about my child’s welfare and the expense it takes to take care of them. my concern MAKES me a perfect mother. i homeschool, i work from home, i take care of them, provide all the love andattention to them. why dont you get pregnant and pop out a kid before you begin to even think you know what makes a loving mother. i have four kids. all under 9, from this one man. grow up missm. i dont hate men, i’m raising two boys to be two men. what i find ironic is that so far no single dad has answered whether or not they are an above and beyond kind of dad!
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