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Im training hard for a martial arts tournament in a year and a half?

Posted on December 22, 2011 by admin| 1 Comment

Well im putting so much hard work and effort cause dad wants to enter too (hes 35 im 16 btw) and he’s also trying hard to get some strength up and speed plus flexability. I ‘ve been in different martial arts Kempo, Karate, Kung Fu, Taekwondo, and wing chun but my favorite thing to do is tai chi (what i mean is when im done training to imrpove some other styles i learned throughout the years, I meditate for an hour gathering chi or energy) and I practice my flexability and speed not forgetting endurance as well. Lastly, i’ve getting into endurance and taking hits from my uncle cause he’s teaching martial arts but he’s taking the time to teach me at the same time. I’ve heard in martial arts tournaments that the participants go all out and never hold back and they could kill you as well if something wrong happens. Is it ok if me and my dad to enter knowing stronger people would be there? (Dad’s been trained in muay thai and aikido for 7 years but he wants to get back in improving those styles plus he’s a hard working man and he likes fighting a lot too.) The thought of fighting people stronger than me means that I almost won’t stand a chance. Ive been doing martial arts for years since i was 6 and my dad wants to be healthy too but he barely told me he signed us up for a martial arts tournament without me knowing. Should I quit and keep training or enter so i can put all those hours of work into showing improvement?
Thanks im focusing so much in meditating/chi increase my punching and kicking speed as best I could I mean everybody in my family says my reflexes are perfect than a lot of people even my uncle the one whos training me and my dad he gets jealous and amazed at my speed. I gotta get my head into the game. By the way when i forced to fight people who knew so much about fighting in middle school (bullies,big guys, adult men, really buff people,etc.) my fights really last so long like 30 minutes because they could take hits and we always fight where the park is and yeah they say until one or the other bleeds heavily or passes out.

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How can I Calm Down and Relax in my Crazy Life?

Posted on December 16, 2011 by admin| 5 Comments

I have a horrible school, with a horrible teacher, in the wrong math class, the principal is a hypocrite, along with the guidance counselor, the superintendent isn’t doing anything about it, I am getting overloaded with homework, my mom chastises me when I don’t do it, my dad is at my back with trying to get me into another class, my mom isn’t, I sent some emails to them saying that I thing their school is terrible, my dad liked it, my mom said that it was horrible and rude, I am an abstract thinker, i am not learning anything in school I am changing my religion, I lost a lot of friends because I am changing my religion, I am sleep deprived, the only thing that gives me comfort is my dog, and we might have to get rid of my dog, I’m probably going to go to a new school next year, and on top of all that my parents are getting divorced.
I have so much stress in my life and I feel like I am about to be ripped apart. I am sad, angry, and I have a mix of emotions. And I don’t know who I should live with either. I need some way to calm down and relax. A prayer, a spell, or some type of Tai-Chi. Anything. Please help me.

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How can I Calm Down and Relax in my Crazy Life?

Posted on August 10, 2011 by admin| Leave a comment

I have a horrible school, with a horrible teacher, in the wrong math class, the principal is a hypocrite, along with the guidance counselor, the superintendent isn’t doing anything about it, I am getting overloaded with homework, my mom chastises me when I don’t do it, my dad is at my back with trying to get me into another class, my mom isn’t, I sent some emails to them saying that I thing their school is terrible, my dad liked it, my mom said that it was horrible and rude, I am an abstract thinker, i am not learning anything in school I am changing my religion, I lost a lot of friends because I am changing my religion, I am sleep deprived, the only thing that gives me comfort is my dog, and we might have to get rid of my dog, I’m probably going to go to a new school next year, and on top of all that my parents are getting divorced.
I have so much stress in my life and I feel like I am about to be ripped apart. I am sad, angry, and I have a mix of emotions. And I don’t know who I should live with either. I need some way to calm down and relax. A prayer, a spell, or some type of Tai-Chi. Anything. Please help me.

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How do I calm down and relax in my crazy life?

Posted on August 10, 2011 by admin| 5 Comments

I have a horrible school, with a horrible teacher, in the wrong math class, the principal is a hypocrite, along with the guidance counselor, the superintendent isn’t doing anything about it, I am getting overloaded with homework, my mom chastises me when I don’t do it, my dad is at my back with trying to get me into another class, my mom isn’t, I sent some emails to them saying that I thing their school is terrible, my dad liked it, my mom said that it was horrible and rude, I am an abstract thinker, i am not learning anything in school I am changing my religion, I lost a lot of friends because I am changing my religion, I am sleep deprived, the only thing that gives me comfort is my dog, and we might have to get rid of my dog, I’m probably going to go to a new school next year, and on top of all that my parents are getting divorced.
I have so much stress in my life and I feel like I am about to be ripped apart. I am sad, angry, and I have a mix of emotions. And I don’t know who I should live with either. I need some way to calm down and relax. A prayer, a spell, or some type of Tai-Chi. Anything. Please help me.

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Husband Depressed, Help!?

Posted on August 3, 2011 by admin| 12 Comments

My husband and I have been married since July 7,2007, on July 11th, 2007 my in-law said they were getting a divorce. It has taken a toll on him, as his parents were married for 25 years. We have had a lot of changes since we were married, we moved off to college only to have to move back because of finances(so we moved in with his dad, and now with my parents). He’s a very optimistic person, but lately has been depressed, giving up his church and taekwondo(that he’s done for 5 years). I don’t know what to do, I try to be there for him and we do things together, go out and such, both of us work, he works days(Monday thru Saturday), and I work nights(15 hours, Thursday-Saturday). I would just want some advice to how I can help my husband especially this holiday season. Thanks!
Also, a classmate of his in H.S, died this year in combat. When we came back from “college”, 3 people we knew died unexpectedly in a week and a half and last year a classmate of mine really close died(don’t think mine has anything to do with it). That’s it.
By the way we’re both very devout Christians, and he’s going to my dad’s church(he’s a pastor), sorry if I alluded that he gave up his faith, he didn’t do that. Thanks for the answers i have so far. Prayer is all i can do i think but I just wonder if there’s something outside of that I can do, I hate seeing him this way!

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