9 months ago i was in decent shape, my skin was dark because I was always backpacking and hiking. I did Kung Fu and Tai Chi religiously, i thought it was going to be my life. But most of all i was motivated to actually give a damn about my future. Well since then there has been a lot of crap in my family and my life (mom running off with a ex boyfriend and putting my family through 6 long months of emotional turmoil) and lots of relationship drama that went on for weeks almost right after the divorce drama subsided. Now I really don’t have anything crazy going on in my life and i feel absolutely drained. My life has become that catchy Bruno Mars song about not wanting to do anything. I constantly skip my community college classes, I call in sick to work a lot more frequently (good friends with manager and I think shes worried about me) and i have almost completely stopped the martial arts that was my life. I just want to lay around all day, smoke pot (been smoking habitually for the past 5 years), and play videos games. I also haven’t gone backpacking for a wile a and my hiking 3 times a week has slowed to the point where I’m lucky if i go once every 2 weeks. Whats is wrong with me people? This Isn’t the person who I’ve worked so hard to become and I have no motivation to fix it. I’m staying home from work today because i couldn’t pull my lazy ass out of bed, so please offer your advice or if anybody has a similar story to mine where they turned it around please share. I think I’m pretty much desperate at this point.
It was 7 long months of the worst kind of drama, excuse me if i don’t want to get far into the details. But believe me it takes a lot to bring me down, but all the crap I’ve gone through these past few months would tear down even the strongest of people. I’m not just some teen bitching about his unfair life these past few months have just really sucked the life out of me.
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what one do i focase on to be a good fighter just to protect me and my family in everyday life?
Okay, I am over weight, I am 15, and I want to lose weight. I don’t know what to do. My family eats bad and its hard to stay healthy when there not and I have to watch them. I want to start excersizing, but I am too embarrased to go to like 24 hour fitness and running around the block. Is there any at home tips? Zone pilates, videos, etc. It’s not like I have to loose like 5 or 10 I want to loose I think about 40.
there’s this new girl at my taekwondo club and i think she really hates me! i gave her an xmas card and she just scowled at me, then she gives me and my family really horrible looks, and she swears at me under her breath, and when we were sparing she grabbed my leg and tried to push me over( which you can’t do) i’m really confusesed because the only thing i’ve said to her is “hi” and even then she glared at me! what sould i do? i’ve told my sensei, but their tellings off have had no effect.
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Tagged breath, card, club, dont, family, girl, leg, new girl, sensei, sould, Taekwondo, taekwondo club, tellings, thing, xmas card
I want to teach Tae Kwon Do to my daughter and possibly some other kids in my family.. I haven’t had any of my old certifications in well over a decade (maybe a decade and a half, don’t want to date myself… lol.) and shortly (within months) after I left the school I practiced and taught juniors in, our main instructors retired from teaching, the school closed. I don’t trust the remaining local schools with my own child’s instruction as the instruction that I recieved was incredible and not remotely focused on profits. It was incredible enough that I still retain everything but my flexibility. lol..
Like I said, I don’t have any of my old certifications and doubt they would still be available. I was active in TKD for over 8 years, as well as a year and a half of Isshin-Ryu during that time, and took Tai Chi instruction. I feel more than confident that I could still provide quality instruction to my daughter and others in our family, but it doesn’t appear that I have a way of certifying our achievements so that she could use it to go further if she chose to. Does anybody have any suggestions?
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Tagged Certifications, decade, family, flexibility, instruction, juniors, local schools, lol, Old, profits, school, Tae, tae kwon, tkd, Wanting