hi, i’ve been dealing with general anxiey, social anxiety where i get very easily embarassed, and situational depression for like 7 years, and a problem i’ve been having for quite some time that is really bad now is feeling horrible if some one criticizes me especially my character because i pride myself on always trying to being polite, i go out of my way to help people and have often had my heart crushed for wearing it on my sleeve too much. anyways someone whom i really liked as a friend(kind of a mother figure) and thought we were getting along well and really looked up to her, started being really rude to me her daughter like 25 times worse, i confronted her finally, and she responded that i was the one being rude saying that i was mad at her becuase of something she did a month ago when i wasn’t even mad at all and told her so then and a couple weeks ago. it doesn’t make any sense in my mind i’ve been nothing but nice to her and her family and this is what happens? i don’t understand. Anyways i’ve been having really bad anxiety and cannot seem to stop thinking about it. They’re so mean to me lately for like two weeks and i need to grow out of this way of thinking because it effects everything i do. i get a negative thought and cannot shake it, only time heals it seems. I was wondering do you have any suggestions for relaxation methods or classes like chinese medicine( tai chi, yoga, etc.) and how i could get started in something like this, maybe i’ll put this in another question. any suggestions appreciated
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