My husband and I have been married since July 7,2007, on July 11th, 2007 my in-law said they were getting a divorce. It has taken a toll on him, as his parents were married for 25 years. We have had a lot of changes since we were married, we moved off to college only to have to move back because of finances(so we moved in with his dad, and now with my parents). He’s a very optimistic person, but lately has been depressed, giving up his church and taekwondo(that he’s done for 5 years). I don’t know what to do, I try to be there for him and we do things together, go out and such, both of us work, he works days(Monday thru Saturday), and I work nights(15 hours, Thursday-Saturday). I would just want some advice to how I can help my husband especially this holiday season. Thanks!
Also, a classmate of his in H.S, died this year in combat. When we came back from “college”, 3 people we knew died unexpectedly in a week and a half and last year a classmate of mine really close died(don’t think mine has anything to do with it). That’s it.
By the way we’re both very devout Christians, and he’s going to my dad’s church(he’s a pastor), sorry if I alluded that he gave up his faith, he didn’t do that. Thanks for the answers i have so far. Prayer is all i can do i think but I just wonder if there’s something outside of that I can do, I hate seeing him this way!
