I have always find it difficult to get a group of my own to hang out. I am able to make friends at random places, but it means that I would have to hang out with their groups and what eventually happens is that my friends are so much closer to people in their own group of friends than with me. I guess part of the problem is that I get bored with people really easily and I am also not interested in small talk or talk about current cultural topics. I don’t watch tv often. I guess I am overly intellectual in a way, but I am also interesting in many other things like cooking, tai chi, and so on. I also find people who are at least 2 or 3 years older than me to be more interesting. I think its also because I’m in a school with few asians and the asians that are there are either very americanized or international students. I’m stuck in the middle.
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I guess my question is how can I find my own group of people to hang out with.
that’s the problem. my culture doesn’t seem to fit into any mainstream cultures. I’m neither chinese nor american. I am also not like the main stream american chinese people.
